Defeating sexual abuse
WELCOME
On this website you can find out what you need to know about Peter's unique Sexual abuse program.
In addition to this program, Peter covers a wide range of subjects which is helpful and that you could benefit from.
On this website you can find out what you need to know about Peter's unique Sexual abuse program.
In addition to this program, Peter covers a wide range of subjects which is helpful and that you could benefit from.
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Peter is a Sexual Abuse Counsellor whose approach is unique! Defeating Sexual Abuse requires specialist knowledge for effective results.
I often tell my clients that it is usually a male that has negatively affected them, working with a male that rebuilds them is very therapeutic and it rebuilds their faith in men. This results in them seeking a male partner that will carry on that with them. It is not that you force it, it just happens. Because they would have changed dramatically. Many clients have said to me over the years, that they did not know that it was possible to have a functional relationship like this. When they do that then they know she has been properly healed. Don't give up, you are in good hands here!!
For more About Peter Jordaan
To book a session: Peter @ iempowerself.com
or visit the contact page on this website and make your booking. Peter will negotiate the best time for you in his diary.
X-handle: @Defeating SA
There are 15 subsections to work through.
The first 14 subsections are designed to get you to the stage that the abuse does not affect you in any way, and you are then able to talk about it as a matter of fact, like the weather, with no reaction.
The final section is one of choice - for further development into a balanced person. Work through these and you are able to take on anything with complete confidence.
The first 14 subsections are designed to get you to the stage that the abuse does not affect you in any way, and you are then able to talk about it as a matter of fact, like the weather, with no reaction.
The final section is one of choice - for further development into a balanced person. Work through these and you are able to take on anything with complete confidence.
About the sexual abuse program
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Further information about the program regarding foundational approach
The program deals with the three parts of you that are fundamental in resolving and removing the negative impact of the abuse on you. These are the spiritual aspect, the mental aspect, and the feelings aspect. We will constantly move between these three thereby enabling you to get a good grasp of how they work individually and collectively on you in a negative or positive way. We work together using these three aspects to fully understand how they impact you, and to resolve the negative aspects and to discover the positive ones.
It is a very deep and moving process of which you will fundamentally start to understand the self thereby benefiting you. You will learn the interconnection between the three parts and how they affect your health, your performance, your relationships, your work, your lovemaking, and you finally end up as a healthy functioning conscious person that naturally attract good things which will just start to happen!
The framework of the program
You will be given a constructive framework, tools, and understandings all the way through. The framework enables you to face future problems and resolve them easily for yourself and make you a functioning conscious human being. This will be there for the rest of your life. This is the investment that you make in yourself, that will pay substantial dividends for the rest of your life. Your life will function better work-wise, with family, friends and with colleagues.
The result: fun, enjoyment, peace, containment, more opportunities, better relaxation, excellent relationships, fabulous love making life, and good health.
Benefits of doing the work
You start to understand so many things about yourself such as, discovering what your own personal blockages are and how to resolve them. You also discover the gifts that was given to you by going through this experience and learn how to use them constructively. You also learn not to be consumed by fear, or how to make it safe for you, how not to be consumed by guilt or shame, not feeling being good enough, or that something is wrong with me, or it’s my fault when something goes wrong, or that men only want me for sex, learn to be present and participatory and not the observer of life, or express your feelings and stand up for yourself in a positive way, you will learn to trust rather than holding people at a distant, you will learn to put boundaries in place and be very comfortable at saying no, you will learn to be in your power and use it constructively, be proud of yourself, love yourself, place yourself first and then others, be and equal partner in a relationship, have a functional (romantic, family, friends, and colleagues) relationships, become a beacon of light to yourself and others. etc! You will have done an enormous amount of work and have accomplished a lot by the time you reach this stage.
Some choose to stop here and others tend to say: I have come such a long way - let me continue on this journey and develop myself further.
Homework
To keep you engaged and to cement your growth, I give homework. The more you do your homework, the more integrated it becomes and the better the impact on you and your life. It makes a major contribution to fundamentally changing your life.
Further developmental work resulting in becoming fully balanced.
This is available post-working through the sexual abuse to truly balance you, if you feel you need it. This means balancing your masculine and feminine within you. We utilise what was learned from the sexual abuse and take it much further. We work through each part by looking in depth at what are the positive and negative aspects of each and what needs to happen bring them into balance. Many senior executives ranging from CEOs, directors, managers, supervisors, business owners have found this process extremely beneficial and have taken what they learn into the workplace with great success.
The program deals with the three parts of you that are fundamental in resolving and removing the negative impact of the abuse on you. These are the spiritual aspect, the mental aspect, and the feelings aspect. We will constantly move between these three thereby enabling you to get a good grasp of how they work individually and collectively on you in a negative or positive way. We work together using these three aspects to fully understand how they impact you, and to resolve the negative aspects and to discover the positive ones.
It is a very deep and moving process of which you will fundamentally start to understand the self thereby benefiting you. You will learn the interconnection between the three parts and how they affect your health, your performance, your relationships, your work, your lovemaking, and you finally end up as a healthy functioning conscious person that naturally attract good things which will just start to happen!
The framework of the program
You will be given a constructive framework, tools, and understandings all the way through. The framework enables you to face future problems and resolve them easily for yourself and make you a functioning conscious human being. This will be there for the rest of your life. This is the investment that you make in yourself, that will pay substantial dividends for the rest of your life. Your life will function better work-wise, with family, friends and with colleagues.
The result: fun, enjoyment, peace, containment, more opportunities, better relaxation, excellent relationships, fabulous love making life, and good health.
Benefits of doing the work
You start to understand so many things about yourself such as, discovering what your own personal blockages are and how to resolve them. You also discover the gifts that was given to you by going through this experience and learn how to use them constructively. You also learn not to be consumed by fear, or how to make it safe for you, how not to be consumed by guilt or shame, not feeling being good enough, or that something is wrong with me, or it’s my fault when something goes wrong, or that men only want me for sex, learn to be present and participatory and not the observer of life, or express your feelings and stand up for yourself in a positive way, you will learn to trust rather than holding people at a distant, you will learn to put boundaries in place and be very comfortable at saying no, you will learn to be in your power and use it constructively, be proud of yourself, love yourself, place yourself first and then others, be and equal partner in a relationship, have a functional (romantic, family, friends, and colleagues) relationships, become a beacon of light to yourself and others. etc! You will have done an enormous amount of work and have accomplished a lot by the time you reach this stage.
Some choose to stop here and others tend to say: I have come such a long way - let me continue on this journey and develop myself further.
Homework
To keep you engaged and to cement your growth, I give homework. The more you do your homework, the more integrated it becomes and the better the impact on you and your life. It makes a major contribution to fundamentally changing your life.
Further developmental work resulting in becoming fully balanced.
This is available post-working through the sexual abuse to truly balance you, if you feel you need it. This means balancing your masculine and feminine within you. We utilise what was learned from the sexual abuse and take it much further. We work through each part by looking in depth at what are the positive and negative aspects of each and what needs to happen bring them into balance. Many senior executives ranging from CEOs, directors, managers, supervisors, business owners have found this process extremely beneficial and have taken what they learn into the workplace with great success.
How to connect
For an appointment, email: [email protected]
I use various video and audio platforms to connect with you. They are:
Microsoft Teams
Skype
FaceTime
Google Meet
WhatsApp
Signal
Telegram.
Please keep in mind the time zones and day light saving differences at the time of scheduling a meeting with me. My time zone is GMT+2.
Note: Once your slot has been allocated, please try and keep it as chopping and changing involves many factors. I do try and accommodate changes/cancellations, as I do understand life happens. I will try to accommodate you, where possible, in a temporary time slot.
I use various video and audio platforms to connect with you. They are:
Microsoft Teams
Skype
FaceTime
Google Meet
Signal
Telegram.
Please keep in mind the time zones and day light saving differences at the time of scheduling a meeting with me. My time zone is GMT+2.
Note: Once your slot has been allocated, please try and keep it as chopping and changing involves many factors. I do try and accommodate changes/cancellations, as I do understand life happens. I will try to accommodate you, where possible, in a temporary time slot.
Fees & how to pay
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My general fee is US$125.00 per hour.
Promotion on X - less US$50 = US$75 per hour
Sessions are once a week and payment is made after each session, via PayPal, to [email protected]. The PayPal fees are for your account. Thanks!
Payment after each session enables me to keep costs down and keep control over the books. Otherwise, I have to employ an accountant and the fees go up. Thank you for your co-operation.
Additional Payment Method:
You can also make a XRP payment that is cheaper than using PayPal and I would prefer it.
When you use the address to make payment, you must ensure that you use the DESTINATION TAG as well as the ADDRESS, or your deposit of Ripple (XRP) will be lost.
This is my personal XRP deposit
ADDRESS: r34mWrX3cZCZpJEsqe1F6PNotREXwj1f3r
DESTINATION TAG: 261648039
Please put your name and date of session in the detail box so that I can track your payment.
Or, you can use the QR code below to make the payment. It contains the relevant address and destination tag.
Promotion on X - less US$50 = US$75 per hour
Sessions are once a week and payment is made after each session, via PayPal, to [email protected]. The PayPal fees are for your account. Thanks!
Payment after each session enables me to keep costs down and keep control over the books. Otherwise, I have to employ an accountant and the fees go up. Thank you for your co-operation.
Additional Payment Method:
You can also make a XRP payment that is cheaper than using PayPal and I would prefer it.
When you use the address to make payment, you must ensure that you use the DESTINATION TAG as well as the ADDRESS, or your deposit of Ripple (XRP) will be lost.
This is my personal XRP deposit
ADDRESS: r34mWrX3cZCZpJEsqe1F6PNotREXwj1f3r
DESTINATION TAG: 261648039
Please put your name and date of session in the detail box so that I can track your payment.
Or, you can use the QR code below to make the payment. It contains the relevant address and destination tag.