Counseling
Each counselling session is focused directly on what the client brings to resolve. If you don’t tell us we can’t help you. The client is given an initial questionnaire that facilitates the establishment of what is really going on in the client's life. The form is so designed to give us and good insight to what is going on and helps us a lot. It also shortens the amount of time working with you as we don’t have to fish for information. It saves you money and us time! Please fill it with as much relevant info as possible to help you best.
Our Program
The client’s personal issues are woven into this general program that is unique to them. It is a tried and tested program and has resulted in outstanding achievements of clients ranging from halting divorce and reconciling, work promotions, management issues, home family issues, amazing achievements in a career, interpersonal skills, romantic relationships, disease healing, business issues, and so the list goes on....
We usually start explaining how we all work and what makes us up. The greater we can establish a good foundation the better and more effective is our subsequent work together. The connection is made between the physical problems and the emotional, mental and spiritual environment of the client. Once this has been achieved the client is then ready to address the issues that are brought by the client, and we move into the next phase.
The next phase displays before the client, the very essence of the problem by accessing within where the problem is sitting. This is a very powerful technique and results in (generally for the first time) the client actually seeing what is going on in their life. The client then states what they wish to do with this scenario and resolution is reached. This generally ends up being a breakthrough for the client and leads to a much happier and freer life. We then put an action plan in place as to what the client feels is the right thing for them i.e. how do they want their lives to work from this point forwards. The client is then able to function in life much better, smarter, resolve issues quicker and be much happier and freer. This leads to life becoming fun -as it is supposed to be. This whole process is very empowering and has resulted in many a client's life changing completely.
The next phase usually involves the client seeing their uniqueness and capabilities and what makes them so special and different to others. This is a very empowering process and often results in the clients actually seeing themselves fully, for the first time. We then take this as our platform on which to build the client’s sense of self. On top of this we now make plans and processes to bring in what the client would like to happen in their future. We teach them how to attract positive potentials for themselves.
The next phase we get the client to discover where they have given away their power to others through various events that have happened in their lives and get them to actively recall it. This usually results in the client proving to themselves how they have lost it and what they can do to recover it in the future. This process (combined with the above) starts to really empower the client in ways they never imagined possible. They usually feel so empowered that they are able to face life easily again.
The next phase we start to use this empowered being to now exercise this power in a constructive way by applying such things as boundaries setting, that results in respectful interaction and results. Most clients are amazed at how easy it is and how effective they become. They use this process in every aspect of their lives and all report positive encounters in problem solving and conflict resolution.
It often happens that we discover that many clients are not fully aware of their feelings and how their feelings should be expressed as part of the boundary setting. When this is identified, we usually have to branch off and teach the client emotional or feelings intelligence. This is a whole other segment on it’s own. Many clients feel that suddenly a whole new world has opened for them. When they combine this with the previous phase, the client often feels that at last they can face life fully as a functioning human being. Many clients are happy to end their learning at this stage and we are happy for them.
For others a spark of interest develops as to how they can take what they have learned so far and further develop themselves to become exceptional parents, managers, leaders, business people, etc.
From here we would teach them about the masculine and feminine (or the power and feelings interaction) within themselves and how to balance this fully. We teach what happens when they are out of balance and how to recognise it and what to do about it. We also teach how to see it in others and how to manage it without being affected by it. When they combine this with the above, they become highly effective in their interactive abilities with others, usually resulting in some or the other leadership role in the work or society realms.
From here we teach the actual roles of what an effective functional balanced romantic and other relationships should look like and operate from. This is usually a very profound teaching, and the clients can see how everything that was taught to them and building up to this stage, was of the utmost importance and how it contributes to a functional relationship. Tools are given to the client for them to apply, ensuring that every relationship (not only romantic ones) will be functional and operate effectively. This process has a profound impact on any relationship and when applied, it always results in personal peace, effective and impactful leadership, good interpersonal relationships and good prospects in the work environment.
From here we teach about the Universal Laws and how they actually govern everything that happen in our lives. When we understand how each one of these works with the other and how they have brought about our problems, resulting in our personal growth. We can then easily see how we generated our problems unconsciously. With this understanding we learn how we can use the Universal Laws to our advantage and create whatever we choose in our lives. This is a very profound topic and extremely powerful.
For others there are just a few issues that they wish to deal with, and they do not want to get involved in a whole growing process. That is okay too!
Our Program
The client’s personal issues are woven into this general program that is unique to them. It is a tried and tested program and has resulted in outstanding achievements of clients ranging from halting divorce and reconciling, work promotions, management issues, home family issues, amazing achievements in a career, interpersonal skills, romantic relationships, disease healing, business issues, and so the list goes on....
We usually start explaining how we all work and what makes us up. The greater we can establish a good foundation the better and more effective is our subsequent work together. The connection is made between the physical problems and the emotional, mental and spiritual environment of the client. Once this has been achieved the client is then ready to address the issues that are brought by the client, and we move into the next phase.
The next phase displays before the client, the very essence of the problem by accessing within where the problem is sitting. This is a very powerful technique and results in (generally for the first time) the client actually seeing what is going on in their life. The client then states what they wish to do with this scenario and resolution is reached. This generally ends up being a breakthrough for the client and leads to a much happier and freer life. We then put an action plan in place as to what the client feels is the right thing for them i.e. how do they want their lives to work from this point forwards. The client is then able to function in life much better, smarter, resolve issues quicker and be much happier and freer. This leads to life becoming fun -as it is supposed to be. This whole process is very empowering and has resulted in many a client's life changing completely.
The next phase usually involves the client seeing their uniqueness and capabilities and what makes them so special and different to others. This is a very empowering process and often results in the clients actually seeing themselves fully, for the first time. We then take this as our platform on which to build the client’s sense of self. On top of this we now make plans and processes to bring in what the client would like to happen in their future. We teach them how to attract positive potentials for themselves.
The next phase we get the client to discover where they have given away their power to others through various events that have happened in their lives and get them to actively recall it. This usually results in the client proving to themselves how they have lost it and what they can do to recover it in the future. This process (combined with the above) starts to really empower the client in ways they never imagined possible. They usually feel so empowered that they are able to face life easily again.
The next phase we start to use this empowered being to now exercise this power in a constructive way by applying such things as boundaries setting, that results in respectful interaction and results. Most clients are amazed at how easy it is and how effective they become. They use this process in every aspect of their lives and all report positive encounters in problem solving and conflict resolution.
It often happens that we discover that many clients are not fully aware of their feelings and how their feelings should be expressed as part of the boundary setting. When this is identified, we usually have to branch off and teach the client emotional or feelings intelligence. This is a whole other segment on it’s own. Many clients feel that suddenly a whole new world has opened for them. When they combine this with the previous phase, the client often feels that at last they can face life fully as a functioning human being. Many clients are happy to end their learning at this stage and we are happy for them.
For others a spark of interest develops as to how they can take what they have learned so far and further develop themselves to become exceptional parents, managers, leaders, business people, etc.
From here we would teach them about the masculine and feminine (or the power and feelings interaction) within themselves and how to balance this fully. We teach what happens when they are out of balance and how to recognise it and what to do about it. We also teach how to see it in others and how to manage it without being affected by it. When they combine this with the above, they become highly effective in their interactive abilities with others, usually resulting in some or the other leadership role in the work or society realms.
From here we teach the actual roles of what an effective functional balanced romantic and other relationships should look like and operate from. This is usually a very profound teaching, and the clients can see how everything that was taught to them and building up to this stage, was of the utmost importance and how it contributes to a functional relationship. Tools are given to the client for them to apply, ensuring that every relationship (not only romantic ones) will be functional and operate effectively. This process has a profound impact on any relationship and when applied, it always results in personal peace, effective and impactful leadership, good interpersonal relationships and good prospects in the work environment.
From here we teach about the Universal Laws and how they actually govern everything that happen in our lives. When we understand how each one of these works with the other and how they have brought about our problems, resulting in our personal growth. We can then easily see how we generated our problems unconsciously. With this understanding we learn how we can use the Universal Laws to our advantage and create whatever we choose in our lives. This is a very profound topic and extremely powerful.
For others there are just a few issues that they wish to deal with, and they do not want to get involved in a whole growing process. That is okay too!