Sexual Abuse – Molestation – Rape – Forced/Unwanted Sex, Healing Process Program + Options for you
About and why you should Defeat Sexual Abuse
The healing from sexual abuse is an intense process and it involves resolving many aspects within the Self. I have been working in the field for about 16 years. There is very little public information on what needs to be addressed to heal from sexual abuse, let alone how it has damaged the survivor, how they struggle through life as a result of this damage, how this translates into personal cost in every day life. This program will enable you to see the major impacts and where your natural developmental skills were frozen and never developed, we teach you how to process this impact and bring about your healing process. There are many skills and internal insights needed by the survivor to bring them up to a normal functioning functional human being level and not to be triggered. Once attained, life becomes so different many simply cannot believe it, the have the ability to fly thereafter. So, I have decided to approach this subject on four fronts, the first being video with clients one-on-one, the second either on Facebook live or zoom video webinars; then there is Patreon, and the other a book. The book will be available from this website towards the end of next year.
Healing Methods for you to choose
- Video or in person; one-on-one -- book via contact page
- Facebook or Zoom webinars - to be announced through social media to you! -- book / ask about via contact page
- Patreon - www.patreon.com/DefeatingSexualAbuse
How long does the process take ? - each client is different as it is directly affected by how much internal work you have done. The more the shorter is the process for you!
Self-learning Modules on Patreon
We have been contact by many for help and we simply could not due to the cost of the session. We really want to help, so we came up with the YouTube patreon channel. We hope this will solve the problem for many.
We are very excited about this as the cost can come down for many and yet the effectiveness of healing can go up.
At the same time of writing the book, I will be constructing video and written modules in patreon, in consecutive form, that make up the entire book. It is envisaged that you can watch and work through each module at your own pace. Please view them consecutively (follow the phase sequence) as they have a logical structure of understanding and development. Each section may have subsections, please work through them in sequence. Jumping around may confuse you. To prevent this please jot down which module you last worked on. Home work is given often, please do it, it will help you tremendously. It you work through all the modules and do the homework, you will definitely come out the other side very different to how you started. Positive things will happen and relationships will become more functional. This is my experience after many, many, many clients!
There is a low fee for each section to work through and each section will be open to revisit as many times as you wish during a single calendar month. A new fee is payable for each new subsequent module, and again that module would be open for a month to you. At the end of each month the cycle terminates and starts again on the new month.
We will provide support to any person on any module should there be something that they need over and above what that module offered. This can be done using WhatsApp, Skype, FaceTime, Zoom, WeChat, Cell or landline. You will appreciate that a lot of detail has been inserted for each module but it is not possible to cover all possibilities for everyone....which is why we offer this service. The first ten minutes is free. Usually we can cover the problems in this time. Thereafter there is a fee.
Below is the planned outline and modules
1 What is Sexual Abuse
About us and our experience in this field, definition of sexual abuse, can sexual abuse be healed? Oh YES, what would life be like post healing…. Magnificent!
2 Recognition of sexual abuse, molestation, rape in children/teenagers/adults
Symptoms/indicators of sexual abuse, Do’s and don’ts, help, the law about sexual abuse and reporting,
3 Perpetrator grooming process
Education is best policy, the typical perpetrator modus operandi, Statistics, usually someone you know or close to the family, very rarely a stranger
4 Child Development process
This section is about a normal child physical, psychological, and sexual development (thinking, feelings, sexual, and spiritual), through each age from birth to age 16. The purpose of this section is for you to see where you got stuck in your natural development.
5 Foundation in understanding yourself
We teach you about your energetic system and what needs to be developed in you to bring about balance in your life.
We teach about why we all come to the planet and give you five basic reasons over and above your own that you planned for you – very insightful
We then teach about your position in your family amongst your siblings and how that has impact on you over and above the sexual abuse.
We then teach about the subconscious mind and how your belief systems come about, not only from your position in the family but also how the sexual abuse directly impacted you and the impact it has on you. We also teach you how to reprogram yourself and change your life.
6 Sexual abuse event and its impact
In this section we focus on the actual sexual abuse event and what are the belief systems you took on about yourself and how they impact you and your life. This is a profound section as it gives great insight on all the areas within you that was adversely affected. We also show you what you had to do to survive and how those coping mechanisms work. These are the benefits you developed from the abuse.
7 Healing process
In this section we unpack each belief symptom and you get to see how you attract situations like this into your life and what the cost of it all has been on your life. We show you how to release these in a very profound deep way from you and your energy field. We follow this up with a excarnation / dissociation process to get you back into your body and being present. Everyone is amazed by this. The last section of this is for you to face the demons and overcome your fear. A very empowering process.
7 Calling back your Power
In this section you discover how you last your power and continually give it away to others around you. We teach you how to recover your power from everyone and to be fully in your own power most probably for the first time in your life. But the next step is for you to learn how to protect this power so that you do not give it away again. You also learn to redo it when you discover that you have just given away your power yet again!!
8 Boundaries and boundary setting using Thinking and Feelings
In this section we teach you how to protect this power of your and to learn what are boundaries, why are they necessary, how do they protect you, discovering your ability to say no, expressing your thinking and your feelings as part of your boundary setting. With out fail everyone is amazed at the simplicity of it yet the power and impact it has, and of course how it fees you up to start to function normally. Here we normally discover the one big skill you must learn and that is your feelings and how to express them as part pf your boundary setting. The sexual abuse severely curtailed this in you.
9 Feelings and your recovery
So in this section we get you to start understanding what feelings are and the difference between feelings and emotions, developing an understanding of how feelings work on the inside of you, learning how to manage your own feelings, learning to manage your feelings in you when in crisis mode, developing and grow a feelings dictionary in you and developing this into a deep understanding within you and you learn how to express them normally and with boundaries. Life changing in all cases.
10 Balancing your "power and your feelings" in your recovery and becoming a functioning human being
So, by this stage you understand your power and your feelings. In this section we teach how to bring these two and have them work in a balanced way in you and how to use it constructively instead of negatively. This process is very empowering and it strengthens you in ways you simply cannot believe. It brings out your potential and all of the blockages you had are a thing of the past and no now become a power house. You can do and achieve anything you want.
We use the same process when working with CEO’s to enable them you become highly effective. We always have huge success with this and have very positive feedback. The survivor cannot believe who they are and what they have managed to accomplish and how they have grown and shifted from who they were to where they are now. Beautiful to see the transformation before our very eyes.
11 Relationships – romantic and otherwise and the 10 success rules
This is an added-on section where we take everything we have learned to date and bring it into how a functional romantic relationship you operate. The same process can be used for normal relationships. It enables you to bring balance into your relationships and functionality, we teach you ten rules to apply to guarantee functionality in your romantic, other relationships, and in business or working environment.
This process has been honed over the last ten years and it has an excellent record of achieving success in your life. It is the best sexual abuse process on the planet. We have seen noting to rival it.
You don’t have to wait to start, we are working with sexual abuse clients from all over the world all the time. Book your spot.