The Coaching Process

Each Coaching session is focused directly on what the client brings. The approach is multifaceted, meaning that through the initial questionnaire it is quickly established what the long term patterns have been in the clients life. The issues around ones work, health and relationship problems are connected for the client in a way that the client can immediately grasp the essence of the problem/s.

This is then explained, drawing on what ever model is necessary so that the client is able to make the connections easily for themselves. The connection is made between the physical environmental problems and the emotional environment of the client. Once this has been achieved the client is then ready to address the underlying issues and we move into the next phase.

Where there are no direct health problems, but there is an underlying emotional problem, where the client is struggling to cope in life (work or home for example), then the client is taken through a journey to discover where the disconnection between all the parts of self happened resulting in the present condition. When this is completed then the client is ready to move into the next phase.

The next phase (from either one of the above) consists of explaining how we all work (on a high level), and how we attract events into our lives that is constantly pushing us to resolve our personal blockages or belief systems. Once this is grasped by the client, we will be ready to move into the next phase.

The next phase displays, before the client, the very essence of the problem by accessing within where the problem is sitting. This is a very powerful technique and results in, generally for the first time, for the client to actually see what is going on in their life. The client then states what they wish to do with this scenario, and then resolution is reached. This generally ends up being a breakthrough for the client and leads to a much happier and freer life. We also then put an action plan in place as to what the client wants to put there for themselves i.e. how do they want their lives to work from this point onwards. This is very empowering and does change lives. The client is able to function in life much smarter, quicker and be much happier and freer. This leads to life being fun as it was supposed to be.

Number of Coaching Sessions.

So far in the practice I have not have had to work with a client for more than eight sessions in a row to address the emotional side of problems or blockages. Generally the issues have been dealt with and resolved within three to four sessions. I have a policy that if I cant get movement within two sessions with the client then I will tell the client that I am not the right person for them to effect the healing that they require. This has not happened yet. Thereafter we start to look at the business coaching side and constantly point out where things can now improve having addressed personal blockages. Clients are normally so amazed as to the new possibilities that they cant wait to get back into the business world and work with their newfound skills.

The first session is always two hours long and there after one hour per session depending on what comes up.

I have a policy that I will not accept a booking from a parent, spouse, friend or a family member. I will gladly discuss the possibilities with them Coachingprocess4

but the actual booking is to be made by the client themselves.

That they are personally responsible for what they have caused in their life, even though they may not understand it or understand how it happened, but that they are prepared to take personal responsibility in their own healing and be prepared to accept that they need help, and be prepared to work with me to reach that goal.
The second criterion is that the client must accept that the feelings that they have inside are real, and are to be addressed with the same importance and respect, as any other health problem, such as a broken leg for instance. For in the case of a broken leg there would be plaster placed around it, nurturing would take place and plans would be made to facilitate movement to and from places – one being work. In the case of emotions one would have to treat them with the same care and respect and have it treated and nurtured and resolution found. They are that important!!.
Working with a client with these two issues in place, leads to an environment where healing can take place. Without it, it is near impossible to reach resolution or for healing to take place.

Issues dealt with

There are a wide variety of issues that I deal with. These can be personal, business related, relationships, and /or child related.

Energetic’s of the body

For our long term growth and full understanding we all need to start to learn about the body’s energetic system and how to work with it. We need to understand how the energetic system works on us on a psychological basis as well as a physical basis. Once you have insight and understanding of it then you will start to manage your life differently and within a very short period of time your life will start to change fundamentally for the better. You will also be able to use the insights and understanding in your interaction with your colleagues.

The Coaching Session

Number of Coaching Sessions.

Issues dealt with

Energetic’s of the body

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